Anal Prostate Toys - Prostate Stimulators Information and Advice

Anal Prostate Toys aka Prostate Massagers or Male G-Spot Massagers

Believe it or not men have a g-spot! And like its female counterpart, it can be the source of intense orgamic pleasure. The correct name for the male g-spot is the Prostate Gland and it is situated in the anus. The important nerves that control the erection of the penis, orgasm and ejaculation, converge at the Prostate and the Perineum area. The perineum is the small area between the anus and the testicles that men will know is very pleasable to touch.

It has been known in select circles since ancient times that massaging the Prostate has been a way to maintain and increase sexual health for men.

Male g-spot massagers often resemble a stylised 'T' in shape. They normally combine a shaped plug that is inserted into the anus to stimulate the Prostate, a up-turned probe to stimulate the Perineum and a handle or loop to help with extraction.

The orgasms men achieve from having their g-spot stimulated are very different to ordinary ones. Some men have reported full body shaking, two minute (or longer) orgasms charged with endorphins leaving them with an overwhelming emotional high. Sounds too good to be true? Well it is not. These powerful, intense orgasms are there for any man who is prepared to use a male g-spot massager.

Although orgasms produced by these devices are often described as non-ejaculatory this does not need to be the case. Because they are essentially a 'hands free' sex toy masturbation and full sexual intercourse are still possible!

Male g-spot massagers should always be inserted carefully and slowly with plenty of lubrication such as Anal Eaze and Golden Girl Anal Jelly.

Prostate Massage for Couples Seven Step Guide

Before you get Started

You will need to put aside a couple of hours where you and your partner will not be disturbed, and you can both totally relax. At first, you may wish to begin learning to use a prostate massager alone to get used to the idea and sensations without the fear of being watched, or any 'accidents' that may happen regarding soiling. Practicing alone first can give you some much needed confidence before bringing in your partner. Essentially, the choice is yours so do whatever feels the most comfortable for you.

Grab a couple of towels and pillows, and some good quality anal lubricants. Silicon lubricant is often the best, because it lasts for a long time without having to be reapplied, and won't eat away at condoms. It is your choice if you want to cover the toy with a condom or not. If you would prefer to douche prior to using this toy, do so. Anal Douches are inexpensive and effective.

Note: The anal canal is usually very clean as faeces are not stored in this area, but up further in the rectum and bowel. It would help for comfort if your bowels are empty, and this should be done at least half an hour before using your prostate massager.

Cover your 'workspace' with a towel, and set out everything you will need. Keeping everything handy is helpful because stopping to get things can be distracting. Now, try to remove any expectations you may have about this experience. Relax, breathe, and open your mind.

Prostate massagers are not ordinary sex toys, and cannot be treated as such. They are not dildos or vibrators, and are not designed to be thrust in and out. A prostate massager is self-propelled by the anal sphincter muscle and the minute quivers and contractions, both voluntary and involuntary.

Everything you do for starters will be slow, careful, and hopefully very exciting! Above all else, relax and enjoy every sensation the massager has to offer. The journey is all part of the fun, and having someone to share it with makes it even more exciting.

Step 1: Relax and Breathe

Good things come to those who practice! Learning how to deeply relax and connect your mind with your body is vital to the success of your anal explorations with a prostate massager. Start your session with some deep breathing, and feel how each breath enters and exits your body. Lie down and feel your diaphragm moving. Concentrate on relaxing each of your muscles and removing expectations of what is about to happen. Breathe all those old ideas you had about male sexuality out.

Step 2: Arousal

This part is entirely up to you - do whatever turns you and your partner on.Try to do things which don't include the penis until you are fully worked up. You want this to be slow and sensuous. Your anal area doesn't produce any natural lubrication, so it is important to massage plenty of lube into the anus and on the toy. The prostate takes a little time to warm up andengorge fully with blood, so just take it easy. Being well-rested and having plenty of time to play is a good idea - there is a whole world in there! Take the time to discover it.

Step 3: Insert the Prostate Massager

This can be done by either of you, though it can be very arousing if done correctly by your partner. Extreme care must be taken! The anal tissue is very delicate. It is helpful if either of you have done it before so you know what it is supposed to feel like, but this is not always necessary. Ensure adequate lubrication at all times.

Arousing The Anus: Arousing the anus prior to insertion can be a real advantage, so licking or rubbing the anus gently and lightly while briefly stimulating the penis will help to open it and relax the muscles.

While inserting, breathe evenly ad deeply, and relax the sphincter muscles with each exhalation. Take it slowly. Fit it completely and comfortably inside your anal canal. Breathe and feel the sensations

Positioning: The prostate massager can be inserted while he is on his hands and knees, which can be an arousing and sexy position to be in. Other options are on his side, with his knees slightly bent, or with his feet resting under his buttocks, kneeling. Make sure the toy is well lubricated. He should be in whatever position is comfortable. Lying on his back can cause the massager handle to push on the bed, which can cause discomfort. Hands and knees, on the side, or kneeling are all good positions to allow his partner access to all parts of his body for arousal.

Breathing: While inserting, breathe evenly and deeply, and relax the sphincter muscles with each exhalation. Take it slowly. Fit it completely and comfortably inside your anal canal. Continue with your erotic play, keeping penis contact to a minimum, but do cause an erection. Keep the stimulation varied in whatever manner you prefer. He needs to concentrate on the sensations in his prostate and abdomen area.

Step 4: Get Used to it

Breathe and feel the sensations. Play around and see what different things feel like.

Step 5: Start Small Contractions

When he feels comfortable with it inside him, he may feel the swell of his prostate against the toy. The prostate engorges with blood upon arousal, and this is why it is possible to feel it. This is what will provide the stimulation to milk the prostate, and have more intense orgasms.

The reverberations of the anal contractions will vibrate up the shaft of the toy, into the head, and onto his prostate. Try contracting on inhalation, and letting go on exhalation. The untrained muscles will probably quiver involuntarily: this is good. He will feel the effects in his prostate.

Play around with the contractions and see how it feels with long ones, strong ones, short ones, and weak ones. Maintaining tautness in the sphincter will cause involuntary quivers, which in effect stimulate the prostate in a positive way. See what feels good. Keep the erotic stimulation on other parts of the body, and build into a rhythm.

Step 6: Take it further

You can now involve the penis in a more full-on way. Do whatever you like, and explore the sensations you are feeling. There are no rules now, so find your own pleasure-spots and techniques. Most feelings are heightened at this point, so make the most of them! Feelings tend to build up and come in waves.

Step 7: Keep Practicing

Try different things, check out forums, talk to people. Every man's experience with a prostate massager is different, but the sensations are normally very similar in the process. If for some reason you don't enjoy the experience, try again another day. These things can take a bit of time to perfect, but don't forget that every man can enjoy this.

Removing the Prostate Massager

Take it out by pulling on the handle gently. The anal area has great suction capacity, so you may have to exert some pressure. Using the anal muscles like when on the toilet can also help.

Hygiene and Safety When Using Prostate Massagers

Prostate massagers are designed to very high hygiene and safety standards. Lubricant must always be used when partaking in anal penetration. The anal canal does not produce its own natural lubricant. Silicone lubricant is very effective and won't disintegrate condoms. Condoms can be used with your prostate massager, though are not essential. The toys are easily cleaned with a small amount of detergent and hot water. They can also be placed on the top rack of dishwashers. It is important to rinse and dry the toy immediately after use to avoid bacteria growth. The toys have a handle and perineum stimulator which acts as an anchor, keeping the end outside where it should be. It is impossible to get it lost inside you. The smooth shaft and head are seam-free so nothing will tear or damage the sensitive tissue in the anal area.

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Types of Anal Prostate Toys

As with anything that is inserted into the anus, care must be taken to avoid any possible injury.

The Nero Male G-Spot Massager is probably the best of the male g-spot massagers available today. It comes in black, purple, white and even 'glow in the dark'. The Nero works with your body transmitting small muscle tremors and contractions via the 'plug' to your Prostate and via the up-turned probe to your Perineum. The Nero is 'hands free' and once inserted can be controlled flexing your sphincter muscles, this produces exquisite sensations in the Prostate, the Perineum and the sphincter itself. Three erogenous zones at once and remember that your hands are free for even more fun!

The Glide Male G-Spot Massager is the latest addition to the Nexus family of prostate massaging sex toys. The prostate is now well known to be a man's sexual centre, controlling his erections, ejaculation, and orgasms. The Nexus Glide has been medically designed to fit snugly around the prostate, locking on for maximum orgasmic pleasure. This male G-Spot stimulator works in harmony with your own body movements to tap into the extreme pleasure zones of the prostate gland, perineum, and anal area. The combined stimulation of these three hot spots creates far more intense, longer, and more pleasurable orgasms for men.

Orgasms with sexual intercourse tend to be the strongest. Before the orgasm, the anus contracts and relaxes several times, rhythmically. The contractions of the orgasm force the Nero to nudge the Prostate even more, prolonging the orgasm and emptying the Prostate of fluid. There will be a lot of fluid and it has a different viscosity to 'normal' ejaculate.

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